How to Have a Euphoric Relationship, and both Marvellous Mental and Physical Wellbeing

Rawad Sheikh
5 min readAug 16, 2020

Everyone wants to have a fulfilling ravishing life where love, joy, health, life, achievements , wellbeing , discoveries, family , creativity, beautiful nature, refreshing prolonged relationships , spectacular travel and all other sensational soothing soulful experiences in life are celebrated.

People strive and spend their entire life pursuing a spectrum of these life pleasures, denying and reducing the present moment value as their mind believes that the next moment hold better conditions that will make them happier and carry amplified joy and success .

Nothing wrong in planning, pursuing targets and upscaling the quality of life in diverse areas; inclusive job , relationship, wealth and wellbeing, it gives momentum and purpose for living as long as the growth is taking place in the present moment. That is because growing in the present moment will serve as a catalyst to support all life purposes and future plans

Once one or more of these milestones or desirable outcomes are achieved and celebrated by you, then in most cases, a lot of people experience diminishing of one or more of these achieved life pleasures. Which could be marriage , joyous happy relationship, a satisfying dream job or a mental/physical wellbeing.

Once one or more of these achieved desirable milestones are in jeopardy , dwelling into self -pity, pain and suffering become inevitable state of being.

When the dimension of human consciousness is dominated by mind made conditioned patters which always evoke from a space of lacking , self pity, suffering and is grounded in the belief that happiness, prosperity and wellbeing is only attained in the next unavailable moment where the next moment does not even exist. Your life is always happening is the present moment and never been and will never be happening anywhere else other than this present moment.

Fortunately, There is a way that helps to proactively maintain and guard all achieved desirables milestones across all aforementioned attained pleasures of life

That is by maintaining a balanced Feminine (Yin) and Masculine energy (Yang). Your knowledge about Yin (The Feminine Energy) and Yang ( The Masculine Energy )somehow guarantee and serve as a protector or shield for your life attained achievements, the one of which you had exerted an unprecedented endeavours and and time to earn.

Let us Address How this Concept is applicable

In terms of Relationships & Liquidity/ Earning Power :

The realisation of Feminine Energy by women, make them more desirable. Embracing feminine energy is not summarized by self care only( I refrain from using the term external beauty as I strongly believe that there is NO pre- established forms or actual measurements/ prescriptions that define or filter what is beautiful or non beautiful woman ) these beauty measures are all due to the collective accumulated unawakened consciousness which is simply a result of a pre-conditioned mind-made patterns.

Feminine Energy goes beyond and is extendable to many forms, such as a Lower voice tone , a moderate slow motion while walking, being a moderate taker instead of extreme giver ( amidst a man and woman relationship only). Choosing to be with an Alpha Man who enjoys claiming the Chivalry role of a protector and provider for his lady. Dressing Modestly and gracefully , because a lady that celebrate her feminine power does not want to attract any attention but the Right Attention . Continuous curiosity about seeking knowledge and self enrichment

Feminine energy is the Nurturing Super Power Universal Energy, without this Feminine Energy me and you would not have had existed, a woman nurtures her child for nine months, pours her heart and showers her child along with her man with intense love , compassion and supreme care , her love, and nurturing power is even scaled to her community, neighbours and the advancement of her country .

A Woman is like a Beautiful Flower or Ripe Fruit that needs to have a Strong , Reliable , Robust , Consistent , Safe , Secure foundation and environment to bloom and over glow

On the other hand, Masculine Energy ( yang ) is the protection, providing energy, is the energy characterised with giving , high pace , speed, vigorous, strength , power , financial liquidity, competitiveness , sharpness, decisiveness, consistency, reliability, generosity and many other Alpha man qualities.

This does not mean that women should only exhibit and embrace a pure feminine energy, and men should only exude their masculine energy. a well balanced ratio of both feminine and masculine power celebrated by men and women is a key to a successful relationship and both mental / physical wellbeing, where the percentage of feminine energy is higher than masculine energy in Women ,and the percentage of masculine power is higher than the feminine power amidst men.

The orchestrated balance of these energies amidst men and women, produce a euphoric , harmonic , well blended, almost conflict free relationship and optimum wellbeing ; where the relationship is grounded on a substantial balanced healthy foundation. This results in a stupendous, soothing, well orchestrated flourishing relationship .

In terms of Wellbeing :

As we all can notice, a serious drop in fertility is taking place amidst many men and women nowadays , along with many chronic illnesses . I believe that the imbalance between both the Feminine ( Yen ) and Masculine ( Yang) energy is resulting in hormonal imbalances which leads to many infertility challenges and evokes many chronic illnesses since the entire hormone’s levels diffused by the endocrine glands are jeopardized.

There is no better teacher than our Universe , observe the universe and see how all its elements and creatures operate in a perfect harmonic well orchestrated dance, comprising a well balanced feminine and masculine energy . Few examples : Sun is a masculine energy whereas Moon is a feminine energy , Day is masculine energy whereas night is a feminine energy , dry is a Masculine energy whereas moist is a feminine energy , summer is a masculine energy whereas winter is a feminine energy, high pace /speed is a masculine energy whereas slow pace is a feminine energy flowering is a feminine energy whereas soil foundation is a masculine energy and many more other applications that you could observe in our universe.

Additionally ,observe how our planet is experiencing disruption and turmoil once these energies are imbalanced, due to most of the time human misuse of the earth resources . For example ,trees cutting, excessive urbanisation where animals lose their home lands , environmental pollution , global warming and wastes/energy residues discharge.

Finally , wish you all a healthy joyous, stupendous relationships, wellbeing and abundance . Prayers goes as well to all elements and creatures that share our beautiful earth :)

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Rawad Sheikh

I am a Female Artist, with passion for wellbeing, organic lifestyle, Dancing, Art and Human culture www.rawad.art @rawad.artist , @the_wellness_space